tips about relationships with succubi

10 Sep

from some of my off site blogs and other sites i get alot of emails about people having issues with succubi. one person is experiencing an aggressive succubus. another i having issues of one too  many entities that came with their succubus.
well my advice to them was this:
succubi (and incubi) are like us and other spirits ;  many have different personalities. some are demure and are gentle. and approach in a very
subtle way to their lover. these are the good girl types. but then there are the ones who  are the bad girl types. they are aggressive. and come on strong. they will lap dance you like a exotic dancer. if you don’t pay attention; they will scratch you a little or smack you gently. have to admit mine is the bad girl type. but she makes everything alright.
also tell them;  let your succubus know what you want. and what you like. although she already knows what you want. she wants to hear it from you.
some succubi are party girls chances are if you summon one. her sisters will be with her. well don’t panic.
you need to let her know that you want her. and her alone. you need to tell her companions that they are welcome to visit her. and at times they can stay. providing they don’t cause trouble.
if you want them to leave. then asked them to. if they don’t. you can perform a  welcoming and clearing ritual.
this ritual welcomes good spirits including your succubus. (but you must say so!) but also tells the unwelcome ones to leave.
this done by lighting a white candle and incense preferbly sandalwood or frankincense. and tthen say:
i light this candle and burn this incense to welcome the spirits that  wish to help  me;
however i light this candle and burn this incense to clear all spirits that wish to do harm.
about those who are having problems in bonding with them;
as i have said before please be patient with them. and encourage them by talking to them. like us they too can be put off by negative talk. and being angry.
if you get angry; apologize. and try to be patient. if you do this. they will see that you are trying. and they will work with you.

8 Responses to “tips about relationships with succubi”

  1. temporalchameleon December 6, 2012 at 2:13 am #

    Heh. My succubus likes to nip at my neck if she’s feeling especially neglected.

    • acrossinfinity December 6, 2012 at 2:30 am #

      mine scratches me playfully on my side. if ignored her too long. 🙂

  2. Sen April 8, 2013 at 3:13 pm #

    Hello! I have a question about clearing/banishing in general. What if a spirit believes it is helping you or that it is meant to be with you but is not (you know, like a well-intentioned but annoying or harmful human)? Is there some kind of law at work here that makes sure only the ones that are truly doing you good will stay? (I am not asking for the sake of argument– I really have no idea and would like to know. :-))

    • acrossinfinity April 8, 2013 at 7:03 pm #

      i understand what you are saying. but spirits aren’t like people. they know full well what you need. or what you don’t need. but here again it depends what spirit comes to you. usually the types of spirit that you describe was either human or dark fae. you can tell them to leave. if this fails. just perform a clearing ritual. which consists of burning sage incense. and going to each corner of your home. and say: you are not welcome here. please go in peace.
      repeat this in each room of your home. in each corner. then after the corners. finish the ritual by standing in the center of the room. and make the same statement.
      i have written a blog on this subject. it should be on the site.

      • senlinsaysSen April 8, 2013 at 7:56 pm #

        Cool. Thank you. I will read further. I’m sorry if this is redundant, but what if you enjoyed the spirit’s company and it enjoyed yours but it wasn’t serving your highest good (say it was distracting from other areas of your life or standing in the way of, say, spirit guides you should be getting to know). Would it have to leave during a smudging or would your affection for it ensure that it stayed? I’m having trouble expressing this properly…

      • acrossinfinity April 10, 2013 at 3:22 am #

        no. smudging will not drive my spirit or others that have come to me. the smudging and any other clearing ritual works on negative entities only.

  3. PaiN March 16, 2014 at 11:22 pm #

    How do you people even summon one.. i have pretty much tried all and every ritual i could find on this damned internet.. nothing works.. leaving me believing that they dont exist and you people are just role playing.. but if u can prove me wrong go ahead i would like to summon one if its truly real.

    • acrossinfinity March 18, 2014 at 5:55 am #

      if only a ritual was that easy. if you read any of my blogs you would of read that my succubus was with me even before i did the ritual. and i assumed that if anyone used the ritual they would at least had once in their life been in contact with a succubus. however i had also learned that there are some entities out there who impersonate succubi and incubi. that they are called shadow beings. so i had removed any rituals on my blog ever since. howeer succubi are real. there is no role playing. i know a few conjurers witches, etc. out there who sell rings and pendants that have succubi bonded or connected to them. however because of your lack of faith and doubt. i myself doubt very much they would of be of any help to you. change your attitude my friend. it maybe just maybe a succubus might come to you. in some form and some way. namaste!

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